Tribute to Daniel

Daniel Geoffrey Dougherty
January 2, 1984 – March 15, 2023.


My beloved son, Daniel Geoffrey Dougherty, MBA, passed away on March 15, 2023 surrounded by his family after bravely fighting colorectal cancer for 8 years. He was an amazing young man with a great zest for life, who lived and fought the disease with great optimism and courage, infectious cheerfulness and extraordinary humor. 

Born in Melbourne, Australia in 1984, he lived in Fiji, England and Kuwait and came to Newbury Park in 2002. Daniel embraced travel and enjoyed meeting people from around the world. Daniel touched everyone with his caring nature, and his courage and optimism. His travels included India, Oman, the Emirates, New Zealand, Hawaii, Singapore, the Cayman Islands and Tahiti, among others. He particularly enjoyed visiting his relatives and friends in Malaysia. He loved to play his guitar, and delve deep into his interests in art, music, health, world cuisines, cars, photography, and just about every subject he could get his hands on. He was an extraordinarily blessed artist, writer and orator. 

He graduated in Digital Art from California State University Channel Islands (B.A., Magna Cum Laude) 2006, and studied at the Marshall Business School at the University of Southern California in their Master of Business Administration program. He was awarded three 1st place wins at the CSUCI Speech Tournament.

Daniel pursued his professional interests of acting (as a member of SAG-AFTRA), modeling, graphic design, digital marketing and instruction, and brand development and research and worked for a number of companies in the Los Angeles area. He was active with several nonprofit organizations, including UNICEF USA, L.A. Works and Film independent, and was a board member of the USC Norris Comprehensive Cancer Center as well as a member of several other clubs at USC.

Unexpectedly diagnosed with Stage 4 colorectal cancer in 2015, Daniel underwent a series of harrowing operations, chemotherapy, immunotherapy and radiotherapy over the years, all of which he endured with his characteristic patience and composure. If anyone asked how he was doing, he would answer something like “Doing good … Can’t complain.”

We were in awe of you Daniel, you made the world a better place, and life will never be the same without you. You have taught us life lessons, even though your time with us was so tragically short. Time will never heal the pain that we are going through, and without you our lives have been completely upended. You have left a hole that will never be filled, but we have to accept that you have returned to God after gracing this earth with your presence.

Daniel was much loved by his immediate family, parents Geoffrey and Hajijah and sisters Adeline and Nadia, and his relatives in the U.S., the U.K. and Malaysia and his many friends around the world. We will miss you forever and can’t wait for the day when we can be together again to laugh again and hug each other.

His earthly body was interred on March 21, 2023 at Conejo Mountain Funeral Park, Camarillo.


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22 responses to “Tribute to Daniel”

  1. Geoff Dougherty Avatar

    7:44 PM
    To my beautiful son, a man who inspired us all and will be a beacon in our memory forever. We are so blessed to have had you on earth with us for this time, and we look forward to being reunited with you. We love you forever.
    🙏

  2. Adeline Dougherty Avatar

    8:40 PM
    To my beloved big brother. You made the most mundane things fun and exciting. You had a relentless passion for life, wanting to experience everyone and everything in it. You were forever optimistic. The world is now dull without you. You were the best brother, and you would’ve been the best uncle. I love you forever, and will bring you with me everywhere I go.

  3. Mike Avatar

    9:23 PM
    Daniel, you always made me feel very comfortable with your and now my family. You were always interested in me and what was going on, with questions and conversation that filled our too short time knowing each other. You added a sparkle to everything we did as a family with enthusiasm, laughter, and good taste. Life was so much better with you in it and I wish we had more time, especially with your new nephew. I love you, my brother.

  4. Norman and Peggy Mueller Avatar

    6:58 AM
    We honor the life of Daniel Dougherty, our son’s brother-in-law. The family has given him the utmost devotion and care. Our deep sympathies are with you all.

  5. Nadia Avatar

    9:01 PM
    Daniel was my beloved big brother. He was a bright light in my life and one of my most favourite people on earth. He was endlessly caring towards his family and always put a smile on the faces of those he encountered with his unrelenting charisma and humour. He was optimistic and courageous in spite of it all, even going so far as to pursue his MBA at USC while receiving chemo treatment every other week. I will miss him dearly until the day we are reunited.

  6. Vivian Avatar

    1:00 PM
    Dearest Daniel,
    As the cherished brother of my best friend, you will always be part of my family and my heart. The strongest memory I have of you is your laughter—simultaneously contagious and charming—and that absolutely radiant smile of yours. You made joy and happiness seem so effortless. I’m grateful for the times we got to spend with each other, and all the conversations we had back at the Echo Park place. Thank you for welcoming me into your life.

  7. Auntie Averil Avatar

    3:52 AM
    Daniel, you made our lives sooo much better..beyond measure. Your love, laughter and zest for life has been a great joy. Until we meet again, my love goes with you and you remain within my heart.

  8. Mark Bainbridge Avatar

    4:29 AM
    Times like this are so hard to put into to words ones memories when so many come to mind.
    Daniel was born the year Averil and I met. He was a shy youngster in Abingdon when we first met (but who could blame him from being quiet during such an invasion of his home!).
    We met up again on a trip to Newcastle, when he was on a family trip staying with Granny and Grandad ‘D’. He was an equally quiet – if not somewhat taller – chap with an amazing talent for drawing cartoons. Certainly put any artistic efforts of mine to shame!
    In later years, when I was back working in NJ by myself Daniel and I exchanged emails and I remember telling him that I was interested in getting involved with a new bridge project in LA. Daniel was surprised that I had never been to LA, or CA for that matter, and said that he would love to show me around. I am so grateful that we had the opportunity for me to take him up on his offer – he was quite guide and always a great host when visiting.
    Will miss you Daniel, rest in peace. (Uncle) Mark

  9. Roisin Avatar

    4:31 AM
    Daniel, even though we grew up on opposite sides of the Atlantic, that never seemed to matter when we all got together – especially for any dance floor-based shenanigans. In the face of so many challenges, you remained unwaveringly optimistic and never lost your sense of humour, style or courage. Thank you for sharing your enthusiasm for all things (even matcha tea!). The world is a much more dull place now without your incredible smile. I wish we could have had more dances, but I am so grateful for the ones we did have. We will love you always.

  10. Ivona with the entire family Avatar

    2:34 PM
    Daniel was always full of light, with a big smile and his big, bright eyes. So beautiful and full of promise. Searching for his place in life, with many plans for the future. He has left us much too early. We will miss him. Condolences to all that knew Daniel and lots of love to his family.

  11. Rory Avatar

    4:43 PM
    Daniel was definitely the most effervescent guy I have ever met!

    I remember the last time i saw him at Adelines and Mikes wedding there was always a cheeky sparkle in his eye whenever we spoke, even when i was talking to him about the mundane things going on in my life.

    Fun and laughter always seemed to hang around him like some sort of infectious supernatural gift.

    Its not really sunk in that he’s gone, but I feel blessed to have known him and I’m proud to call him my cousin.

  12. Uncle Peter Avatar

    5:02 PM

    What can I say? It was only a month ago that we visited Daniel in hospital and he was so upbeat and determined.His positive attitude,smiles and laughter throughout his health and MBA challenges have been amazing.We had a discussion on the pros and cons of EVs and hybrids,but I don’t think he got to follow up and read the Car & Driver mags I left with him.From first meeting him at Ballyskeagh Road he always had a happy smile and was fun to be with.I particularly remember that smile and the wind blowing in his dark hair when we went for a spin in the red Porsche cabriolet back in 2011.And again ,only 11 months ago, when he danced so enthusiastically in his white suit with his cousins and sisters at Emma’s wedding.Of course,I brought another laugh to his face when I bowled over on the dance floor trying to keep up with the young ones!The world is a sadder place without Daniel Geoffrey ,we all miss you and love you and will never forget your smile,laughter and fighting spirit.
    Uncle Peter

  13. Aunt Jenny Avatar

    9:48 AM
    My darling Daniel, I remember the day you were born and your Granny D was so excited to have a Grandson to carry on the Dougherty name. I know how proud she would have been of the young man you grew into.. You were an inspiration to us all in your battle for life. Even when we last visited you and you were in so much pain you still had that positive spirit and a smile on your face. You touched all our hearts and will be forever loved. Sleep peacefully Daniel.
    Aunt Jenny xx

  14. Emma & Mark Avatar

    10:13 AM
    Daniel,
    Though our visits were never as frequent as we would have liked, there was never any doubt in my mind that we would pick up right where we left off. You always went out of your way to make sure everyone around you was smiling, laughing and having fun. I remember fondly at Adeline and Mike’s wedding when VERY nervous Mark was first meeting this side of the family and pulling me aside saying “Okay, he’s really nice, I’m not scared of that one” and hoping we were at the same table. Little did he know, we would be blessed with your attendance at our own wedding a few years later, and you’d even let him join our Dougherty Cousins Dance Team. Your energy so effortlessly brought out the best in everyone around you and I hope to follow your example of living life with true happiness and enthusiasm. We miss and love you dearly.

  15. Sandra, Rachel and Nelsonx2 Avatar

    12:58 PM
    Daniel we will miss seeing your sweet face and chats. Goodbye and Rest In Peace 🤍

  16. Luann McKenzie Avatar

    11:01 AM
    Although I never met Daniel or any of his family, I was deeply touched and saddened by his passing, which I became aware of through the beautiful tribute in the Acorn newspaper. What a remarkable human being. I am greatly inspired by who he was and how he lived his life. Wishing his family and friends peace, comfort and healing during this sad time.

    1. Geoff Avatar

      2:27 PM
      Thank you so much, Luanne. We appreciate your kind comments.

  17. Uncle Henry and Aunt Lynda Avatar

    12:01 AM
    Laura, Lynda and I are very sad to hear about Daniel – and share your grief and loss.. Daniel was a wonderful man with great spirit, who lived and fought with great optimism, cheerfulness and good humour. We won’t forget his example to us all and his very special qualities. Daniel was the perfect host when we visited California. A son, brother relative and friend to be very proud of.

  18. Philip West Avatar
    Philip West

    6:45 PM
    As an older graduate student at CSUCI, I saw Daniel do a presentation for one of his Dad’s classes or seminars. He was articulate, funny, incredibly intelligent, charismatic, self assured and somehow still came across as humble. Eveyone was impressed by him. I am so sorry for such a terrible loss.

    1. Geoff Avatar

      7:26 PM
      Many thanks, Phil. I remember feeling impressed too. 😊

  19. Phil Hampton Avatar
    Phil Hampton

    9:53 AM
    Dear Geoff, Hajijah, Adeline and Nadia:

    I am so sorry for your loss. I wish I had had the opportunity to meet Daniel.

    My thoughts will be with all of you.

    1. Geoff Avatar

      10:55 AM
      Many thanks, Phil.

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